Do You Want to Understand Your Spouse Better? Take the RELATE Assessment for 30% off Today!

Have you ever wondered how compatible you and your spouse or significant other really are? Have you ever wondered how the quality of your relationship stacks up? Have you ever wanted to take a "litmus test" to honestly analyze your strengths and weaknesses and pinpoint areas for improvement?

If so, then we've got just the thing for you!

You may have heard of the Relate Institute before, but if not, they are a fantastic not-for-profit organization that provides incredible resources to couples and individuals seeking to improve their relationships.

They have put together the most comprehensive relationship questionnaire in the world (based on research and over 30 years of experience in marriage education!) and we've hooked you up with a fantastic deal!

By using the promo code: NURTUREMARRIAGE you can take the full RELATE Assessment for 30% off!

​It's not expensive to begin with, and totally worth it if you want to learn more about the current state of your relationship and what changes you can make to improve. (Oh, and by the way we don't receive ANY commission or kickback of any kind when you take the assessment - we really just want to do this because it will help nurture your marriage!). 

Here's how it works according to the Relate Institute's website:

• You complete a comprehensive, research-based questionnaire about the four major predictors of marital stability. 
• Your spouse takes the same assessment (ideally).
• The Relate Institute will provide you with a personalized, 20-page report that shows your strengths as well as areas of improvement as a relationship partner. 

What does RELATE include?

"RELATE features 276 questions focused on the four major areas influencing marital satisfaction: personality/values, family and friend support, communication skills, and upbringing/background. After completing RELATE online, you’ll receive a downloadable/printable RELATE report. This report is a comprehensive, personalized summary that includes:

• Color bar graphs illustrating how you and your partner rated yourself and each other in eight areas of personality, from sociability to self-esteem.
• Comparisons of your attitudes toward roles, sex, children, religion, and more.
• Insights on how your childhood experiences, from parental happiness to conflict resolution, have shaped your relationship style.
• Identification of problem areas, from power issues to money issues and more.
• Identification of your strengths as a couple.
• Suggestions for improving your relationship and resources you can use to start productive discussions and move to the next step." (The Relate Institute)

​You can even view an example summary report here. 

It's that simple! And the assessment usually takes less than an hour to complete (Learning how to better nurture your marriage is totally worth the time.)!

An example report showing a small part of the Emotional Readiness results.

So, how do I take RELATE?

1. Go to this website: http://relateinstitute.com/the-relate-assessment/
2. Click on "Begin the Relate Assessment."
3. Enter the promo code: NURTUREMARRIAGE to receive 30% off. (Note, only the first 200 people to take RELATE will get the discount, so act fast!)
4. Take the assessment and have your spouse take it too.
5. Check out the results and see what you learn (The results will be very interesting and super helpful, we promise!).
6. Go over your results with your spouse and talk about steps you can take to make positive changes in your relationship!

We took the Relate Assessment not that long ago and learned A LOT about our relationship. Some of our results seemed obvious to us, but others were completely unexpected. In fact, in some ways it was a little embarrassing to see an unbiased, research-based analysis of our marriage.

The results have certainly motivated us to work even harder on our relationship!

Here are three things we learned from taking RELATE -

1. Your perception of certain aspects of your relationship may be wildly different than your spouse's perception.  In other words, you may think you're doing great in certain areas, but if your spouse doesn't think so, then there's obviously room for improvement. 
2. Your spouse may have areas of insecurity that you never knew about! Only by having open and honest discussions with each other can you help one another learn and grow, and then implement changes that will help your marriage blossom. 
3. Regardless of where your marriage is at now, YOU (you and your spouse) decide where it will be in the future. The RELATE assessment will provide you with valuable insight about the current status of your relationship, but it's up to you what you do with that information. You (and all of us) have the ability to change and be better tomorrow than we were today! Isn't that a wonderful thing?!

So there you have it! Seriously, go take the RELATE assessment with your spouse or significant other and see what you learn about the quality of your relationship! Oh, and act fast because only the first 200 people will receive 30% off! Don't forget to use the PROMO CODE: NURTUREMARRIAGE at checkout to get the discount!

​Photo Credit: ​Top & bottom photo: Ashley Swenson Photo;  Middle Photo: Relate Institute

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