Written by Tawny May
If you’ve been married for longer than two weeks, your spouse knows you’re a mortal. You might occasionally swear, wake up with dragon breath, or legitimately not have a clue what you’re doing with your life.
Sometimes you might feel like your spouse loved you more when you were dating and he was convinced you were a goddess, or maybe you’ve broken your wife’s trust again and you’re not sure how to recover. Being a confident spouse isn’t something you have and then you don’t; it’s not something that’s gone forever once it slips away. Confidence comes and goes, and that is perfectly normal! Marriage is like a petri dish for vulnerability, meaning that those horribly revealing, humanizing moments seems to build upon one another exponentially and leave us feeling fully exposed. But don’t worry, this will not be a perma-state; you can and will bounce back. If you are wondering how you can combat vulnerability and mistakes to be a more confident spouse, read on. There are several definitions for confidence, the most applicable is the following: A feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities. If we deconstruct this, we could deduce that a lack of confidence would come from one’s lost appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities. It is possible for us to lose appreciation of our abilities and qualities as we’re placed in vulnerable situations time and time again--as marriage so graciously affords us. We fall short of expectations, we overreact, we lose our temper, we lie, we cheat, we aren’t as kind with our spouse as we are with others...the list goes on and on. All of these opportunities to “lose appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities” takes a toll on one’s confidence, which adversely affects one’s marriage.
So, how we can be more confident spouses?
There’s no secret recipe for being more confident; these five measly suggestions are just that - suggestions. Each person is intrinsically unique; you may find more of your mojo/confidence by being in nature or in a church; by talking with old friends, or by ignoring everyone for a little while and doing nothing!
However you do you, do you. Find you. Remember, confidence is a feeling of self-assurance arising from your appreciation of your own abilities or qualities. YOU HAVE AMAZING ABILITIES AND QUALITIES. Take confidence in that and you’ll take confidence in yourself. And I’ll tell you, there’s nothing more attractive to your spouse than a confident, happy and content you. And then watch out because your deepened self-confidence will inevitably strengthen your marriage! Photo Credit: Striegler Photo Read - An Interview with Walker & Kerry Johanson Take the 5 Love Languages Quiz 40 Fabulous Spring Date Ideas Do You Know Your Spouse's Apology Language?
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28 Comments
1/26/2018 01:23:21 am
This is a great post. This uplift the spirits of the reader. As they say confidence comes from within. The aura shines when we feel good about ourselves.
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Molly Peterson
8/17/2021 03:34:43 am
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8/11/2021 12:25:13 pm
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8/17/2021 03:36:39 am
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9/8/2021 02:39:09 pm
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9/21/2021 07:55:18 pm
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9/22/2021 10:16:34 pm
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10/16/2021 10:17:12 pm
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11/24/2021 04:08:40 pm
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11/24/2021 06:03:57 pm
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12/12/2021 08:15:14 pm
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12/15/2021 03:36:30 pm
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12/16/2021 04:22:21 am
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1/6/2022 03:07:39 pm
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MONISHA ALEXIS
1/17/2022 06:42:45 pm
I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend returns to me, and today with all due respect I want to thank DR.ONIHA for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until I lost my boyfriend, I required help until I found a great spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. Three days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for the past 6 years now, and made an apology for the heartbreak, and told me that he is ready to be my backbone till the rest of his life with me. DR.ONIHA released him to let me know how much I loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have shared together. As I`m writing this testimony right now I`m the happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend are living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it was even before our break up. So that`s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe. All thanks goes to DR.ONIHA for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in any situation you are undergoing, it may be a heartbreak, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too.
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1/27/2022 01:01:42 am
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2/15/2022 12:50:23 am
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2/27/2022 04:06:33 pm
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3/22/2022 07:52:51 pm
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KARLA DAWSON
4/2/2022 05:13:45 am
I am so happy to share this fantastic testimony of mine. My life has changed round completely in 48hours. I can see myself in the mirror and smile. I have confidence in myself and my abilities for the first time in ages. I have my boyfriend back in my life with the help of Dr Oniha. He said sorry 24 hours after the spell was created. He said he realised that he never really wanted to break up and he could not handle emotional baggage I was carrying around all the time. He said that he thought he was the negative influence on my life and thought it best to leave. He said it was hard that I kept talking about the past all the time. We have both forgiven each other. I have money in my pocket that is my own at last. (My compensation cheque came through. I was told it was months away. I am living proof of what Dr Oniha can do. I thank you so much Dr Oniha for the wonderful thing you did in my relationship. I am so happy now. With your help we were both able to see and speak the truth to each other. I never thought a spell could help a couple before. I am very pleased to contact you and initiate all this to happen. Anyone who has a relationship problem can contact Dr Oniha.
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Osman Curtis
5/9/2022 02:42:52 pm
Believe it or not Dr Amber has come to stay to do wonders with his spells. I overheard my co-worker telling his cousin how Dr Amber helped him get back his partner within 24 hours . I was amazed about what he said. I searched for this man called Dr Amber online and guess what... He had so many good reviews online about his work. I got in contact with him to win the lottery and he assured me that winning the lottery is not a problem but what do I intend doing with the winnings. I told him what I will do when I become a winner. Dr Amber prepared a spell and prayed for me for 3 days before he told me where to play the Lottery. I did as he instructed me with a positive mindset. To my greatest shock, I was announced the winner of $1,000 dollars everyday for life which is equivalent to a cash prize of $7,000,000 million dollars.. I have no words to thank Dr Amber but to share your good works to everyone that needs help. Visit: amberlottotemple.com or Email: amberlottotemple@yahoo.com
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Elizabeth Jones
5/10/2022 08:23:31 pm
Hello everyone i am very glad shearing this my amazing testimony on how Priest Bacasim brought back my husband, i have been living in hell for the past 2 years since my husband left me, i saw a testimony of a woman online on how Prist Bacasim restore her husband back to her, so i decided to also contact him through his email and i explain everything to him and he promised he will bring back my husband in 48hrs, at first i didn't believe it 100% but i have no choice, he told me what i should do which i did, on a faithful morning as i was preparing for work i saw my husband in front of the house i was so surprised, he started begging me to forgive him, i had to forgive him because i love him so much and now we are living happily together. I also want you out there that is also facing the same marital problem to also contact him for help and i believe he will help you. here are his contacts. Email pristbacasim2000@gmail.com or WhatsApp him on +15202103368. you can also visit my website @ https://priestbacasima2001.wixsite.com/priest
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Robert Mitchell
5/19/2022 12:31:29 am
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