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When You Want to Run & Leave - Do This Instead

3/7/2017

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Are you a runner in your marriage? Do you run away from your problems?
Written by Aaron & April Jacob
We posted a quote recently that taught a very simple truth.

It claimed to purport the answer to the question of how to stay married no matter what. The solution?
how to stay together, no matter what.
1. Stay married.
2. No matter what.

Okay, not so simple you say? Or is it? ​

Love is a choice.

We recently attended a marriage class where the speaker said that she knew a woman who decided - after thinking about leaving her spouse - to stay. To make her decision once and for all, and to not have leaving be an option anymore.

With that determination, her decision was made, and she wasn't turning back.

We love that story.

Each of us made a similar decision when we got married. Take a minute and think back to that day and how determined you were to keep a commitment you had no clue would test and try you in ways you couldn't even imagine.

Each of us decided to stick together, to stay with our spouse, no matter what.**

Well, how are you doing on that commitment of yours?
What can you do differently?
What changes might you need to make?

Imagine, for instance, that you and your spouse have just had a disagreement late at night. Your feelings were hurt and there was no way you wanted to sleep next to your seemingly "thoughtless" spouse.

In your head you wanted to run. You were out of there. Done. You wanted to go sleep in the other room.

But a little voice in your head told you not to run. 

To just stay.

And to stay in bed, right next to the spouse who had hurt your feelings. 

Possible?
Ridiculous? 
Or a simply a choice?

Is that what staying together looks like? 
Is this what happily ever afters are made of?

Now, staying doesn't mean you have to stay up all night and work through the conflict. It simply means that you are choosing not to make the current issue a bigger problem than it is. You are choosing to cut the drama, to let the heat of the moment die down, and to simply stay put in the process. 

Why You Shouldn't Run

We all have moments when we want to run. Whether we want to run out of the room, or out of the house, we just need out.

The reasons why we do this vary from person to person but often it can be boiled down to one or two simple reasons.

Reason #1 - I'm hurt and I can't handle this, I need out.

This reason is pretty legit because we all need breaks and time outs from time to time. However, running away isn't the best option available. 

Reason #2 - The only way I know to let my spouse know how hurt I am is to run away and shut down. 

Does this sound like Reasons #1? It's because it is pretty much the same thing, just worded differently, and adding the part about letting your spouse know you are overwhelmed.

We usually run away when we are flooded with emotions that we don't know how to handle.

However, running away still isn't the best option available.

Calm down? Yes. Take a break? Yes. But run away? Nope. 

In fact, running is simply a negative pattern of dealing with conflict - a pattern you don't want to continue if you want your marriage to last. 

Why? 

Because in almost every situation, running away never helps. In fact, in exacerbates the problem, invites drama into the marriage relationship, and makes things far worse and "bigger" than they really should be. 

So, what should do you instead of run?


READ: MARRIAGE IS THE HARDEST THING I'VE EVER DONE
when you want to run away from your marriage
If You Are a Runner

Our advice here is simple - 

Stop running.

Just stop. 

Choose to not run away, but to take responsibility and to face your problems head on. 

This means that the next time you are tempted to run into the other room, or to run downstairs, or to run to Dairy Queen - "Stop it," and simply choose to stay with your spouse. 

You can make that choice.
You really can. 
Will you make it? 

Just make the choice to NOT leave. No matter how frustrated, angry, irritated, annoyed, or upset you are, just choose to stay.

READ: CONFLICT IS A NORMAL AND NATURAL PART OF YOUR HAPPILY EVER AFTER


It's really that easy.

Well, almost that easy. Once you decide to stop the "running behavior" that may be harming your relationship, you need to be able to replace it with a more positive way to handle conflict.

Just remember, NOT running away is a good place to start. 


You also may need some coaching on how to handle - and not run from - tough or painful emotions. (Read about how Ashlynn & Coby use "The Emotion Wheel" here.)

It's okay to just feel. 


Now a Few Words if Your Spouse is a Runner

If your spouse is a runner, please note that it isn't your responsibility to chase your spouse, or try to fix everything (However, that may be the very thing your spouse wants - to be chased and held and hugged and protected.)

If, during conflict, you are able to stay in a calmer place emotionally, where you can see more clearly, then please do what you can to help your spouse calm down!

This doesn't mean that you should feel manipulated by your spouse to try and make things better, or that it is your job to give them all the attention in the world when they choose to run, but there are a few things you can do to help!

1. Don't let them go. Be humble enough to ask them to stay. Not in a controlling way, or a "Pleeease don't leave me," begging kind of way, but in an I love-you-let's-keep-the-drama-down kind of way. Something as simple as "Please don't sleep in the other room, I'm sorry for what I said," can go a long way towards helping you both feel reconnected and ready to apologize.

2. If they do run, text him/her and apologize. Ask them to come back and work through things. And if they really ran - and left the house - tell them to bring you a milkshake back (Humor is always a good idea in marriage!).

3. Calling your spouse on the phone is also a good idea. The runner will probably ignore your calls, but inwardly he/she will appreciate that you called. 

4. When they return to your presence/room/home, offer a hug, forgiveness, an apology, and a simple way for them to feel safe and loved. Even if you feel this is all their fault, you can choose to do your part to stay together no matter what, too!

5. Talk about how running hurts you and hurts him/her and commit to finding better solutions and developing the skills necessary to positively handle the conflict in your marriage better next time. Marriage counseling or coaching is always a great idea if you find the right approach and the right counselor/coach.

In summary, running away escalates any marital conflict and choosing not to run quickly de-escalates any marital conflict. 

Like we said before, this isn't an end-all cure-all answer for runners or those who are married to runners. We all have our own ways of dealing with conflict and we all have part "runner" in us (Think about how often you "run away" from your problems with different strategies - taking a bath, spending money, watching a show - or six, taking a nap, eating junk food, etc) that we need to work at overcoming.

READ: SIX WAYS TO CONNECT AFTER A LONG DAY

So the next time conflict rears its ugly head in your marriage, make #onesmallchange and simply choose to stop running and to start staying. Then you can avoid "bigger" conflict, begin the process of reconciliation, and arrive at joy a lot more quickly than you could if you ran. 

That one simple change may be just the start you need to begin nurturing your marriage in very real and practical ways this week. 

Yes, choosing to stay when you want to run is what "staying together" and "happily ever afters" look like. You see, choosing to stay means that you are also ready to make other choices and changes that will nurture your marriage today and in the future. And those simple changes will make all the difference in creating the marriage of your dreams.


Happy nurturing. 

~ Aaron & April 

**We're not saying there aren't times when divorce is the only acceptable and realistic answer.

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36 Comments
C z
1/20/2018 02:57:21 pm

When you have a spouse who physically intimidates you, has punched walls or broken things in the past, apologies don't cut it anymore. The trust has been violated. Staying in a marriage like this for 15 years has been no life worth living. Better to get away and start loving yourself.

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Dawn
1/27/2018 12:34:33 pm

Yes. Know exactly how you feel. Did you get away?

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Alysia LeFevre
11/7/2018 08:35:43 pm

I'm not married so what the Hell am I supposed to do?

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Fattlad
1/20/2019 12:38:15 am

A marriage where only one person has been the one trying to let it work out and even at the same time loosing self esteem and value worth staying? No.

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Runaway
2/5/2020 01:53:59 am

My husband has been cheating on me for almost 7 years. He admits it when he's caught And proud of it. As a narcissist he says it's my fault. Had I done... Or if I said.... It always comes back to me.

I'm always the initiative of counseling. Several time with secular and now Christian counseling. We started again with our pastor last week and today I found a secret email account. Although it didn't seem to reveal new messages the page was still open in his search window. He's still checking it. Lies lies and lies. I just can't believe him any more. I'm tired of looking like a fool. I want to get divorced and run away. Run away from him.

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7/27/2021 04:02:30 pm

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9/20/2021 03:11:32 am

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11/4/2021 02:41:20 pm

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Claire Jason
12/6/2021 04:18:18 pm

Sometimes in life giving up is not the option, some of us couldn't even take NO for an answer, I am one of such, I have visited so many forums and some of the people I met on such sites told me to forget about my lover or maybe I should just let go , I always believe in following my dreams and I believe that I can get whatever I want or be who I wanna be at any point in my life. Why am I saying this? Jason left me not long ago for a younger lady, he told me it was over but like I said I can always get whatever I want in life which was what I did, i ensure that I got him back home with me with the help of a GREAT MAN known as DR. ISI of the http://ancientspiritualtemple.com , he did a reunion spell for me, and now Jason is back home with me and we are having a good life together again. Contact him at http://ancientspiritualtemple.com and also visit his website to know more about hi via: http://ancientspiritualtemple.com . Get the best result you ever dreamed of with his spells.

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Lerynne West
12/11/2021 12:37:35 pm

I never knew lottery spells existed until I was referred to Dr Amber by my neighbor. I have been playing lottery games for the past 7 years and I have never won above $2,000 but after I came in contact with Dr Amber, I told him my past experience about playing lottery of which I have never won big amount and Dr Amber told me what will be done by praying and preparing a lottery spell for me. He did that and gave me some numbers to play the lottery game. At first I took everything as a joke until I was emailed a week after that I had won the sum of $343.9 million. I was shocked and surprised at that very moment because my long awaited prayers had finally been answered and I thank Dr Amber for helping me out for my financial status to change and that of my generations. If you want to win a huge amount on your next lottery game, contact Dr Amber now and I assure you that your bold step will be your change of level.

Email him via: amberlottotemple@yahoo.com or Call/WhatsApp this number +1 (406) 646-2222 for immediate response.

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Teresa
12/22/2021 09:28:35 pm


I want to thank the Great DR SUNNY for bringing the restoration of my broken marriage. My name is Teresa. No one could have made me believe that the Testimony would come true. I was the biggest skeptic in the world, but a trusted source (a very close co-worker) told me and I gave it a try, it was one of the best things I have ever done. My love life was in shambles and I was on the brink of a third. I just couldn't face another divorce and wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn't seem to mind. He broke up with me again. He was confused and I don't know what to do again, rather that they contact DR SUNNY. He did a love spell that got my husband back to me in exactly 48 hours, he assured me. now we are very happy with ourselves. Dr. SUNNY made him realize how much we love and need each other. This man is REAL and for the better. He can also help you fix your broken relationship. I had my husband back! It was like a miracle. contact him now if he needs help. email: drsunnydsolution1@gmail.com You can also send a WhatsApp to +2348082943805.

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Albert Washington
2/27/2022 05:21:11 am

Hi guys, I don’t have much to say right now rather than to say thank you to Dr Amber for rescuing me and my family from poverty. I love playing the lottery but winning big is always the issue for me. I will never forget the day I came in contact with Dr Amber whose lottery spell made me a winner of $360,000,000 million dollars just by giving me sure winning numbers within 3 days to play the lottery after he prepared the lottery spell for me. My financial status has changed for good and I’ve started to live my dream life after 14 years of playing the lottery. Thank you Dr Amber for I’m very grateful for all you’ve done for me and my family. You can call or message Dr Amber via WhatsApp with +1 (318) 306-5044 or email: amberlottotemple@yahoo.com or visit: www.amberlottotemple.com for more information.

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Joanna Lyon
3/10/2022 05:04:17 pm

My fiance broke up with me last week i was so sad I changed completely, I wasn't eating and i wasn't talking to anybody, I cried a lot,I was so depressed and stressed out that I was scared I'm going to end up in the hospital because of all the stress and depression until one day i search online on getting love tips because I Love & care about him deeply and I just want us to be together as a couple again and I want us to last forever then i found a powerful spell caster Called Dr. Mkuru that he solved so many relationship problem...... so i contacted him and explain every thing to him, then Dr. Mkuru told me he will come back to me between 17hrs after he cast spell on him never believe it until my fiance called me on the phone and told me he want us to come back and live happily together forever , Am so happy now that Dr. Mkuru help me bring my fiance back to me. Thanks so much Dr. Mkuru he can also help you... His 100% guaranteed, Email him at [dr.baba.mkurulovespellcaster@gmail.com] you can Visit his website; https://Drmkuruspellcaster.com WhatsApp +2349075998982

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CLARA
5/17/2022 10:46:21 am

Thank you Dr Oniha for helping me to get my lovely partner back in my life. I am so blessed that you use a non forceful way of reuniting us. Our past,presence and future seems to have all merged into one. You told me that everyone has a compatible soul mate whether in their life of waiting to come into their lives. I am glad its my partner of old. I did not want to really go and be with someone else... You have removed the extra baggage that has been affecting us and holding us back. Peace to you Dr Oniha. Anyone out there with relationship problem should try and contact Dr Oniha his website, i assure you your problems will be solved by this great man. 
Email: onihaspelltemple@gmail.com
Call/Whatsapp number: +16692213962
Website: http://onihaspells.com.

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Josephine
5/25/2022 05:09:31 am

Want to amend your broken home, broken relationship or affairs. want to get back your lost job or get a better one. wants to recover your properties or win that court case that has deprived you of your belongings, here's the right place to get your long seeking solution. you don't need to make any sacrifice, all you need is your
Faith. if you can believe then it's settled, Dr Hope Is the key to all,... WhatsApp +447362007971. Email successfulcenter33@gmail.com.
He was highly functional and organized with the help of his spiritualism.

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SCOTT WYCOFF
6/13/2022 05:16:49 pm

Hi, did you know there are spells to win love back from an ex. I have done it. I love reading about relationships and how to make them work, how to better the relationship, and how to keep the spark alive, even how to talk to them a certain way to get them to think a different way about the situation and you. If you need advice or want to win your ex back, try this: emutemple@gmail.com copy and message on the following ( emutemple@gmail.com ) It will change your mentality and get you what you want. Facebook page Https://web.facebook.com/Emu-Temple- 104891335203341

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Maria Gonzales
7/14/2022 02:31:40 am


My boyfriend that left me a few months ago just came back to me last night crying for me to take him back. After a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend, he changed suddenly and stopped contacting me regularly, he would come up with excuses of not seeing me all the time. He stopped answering my calls and my sms and he stopped seeing me regularly. I then started seeing him with different girls several times but every time he would say that he loved me and that he needed some time to think about our relationship. But I couldn’t stop thinking about him so I decided to go online and I saw so many good talks about this spell caster and I contacted him and explained my problems to him. He cast a love spell for me. and After 2days, my boyfriend came back to me and started begging me to forgive him. We moved in together after a few months and he was more open to me than before and he started spending more time with me than his friends. We eventually got married and now have been married happily with a son. Ever since this caster helped me, my husband is very stable, faithful and closer to me than before.
Here his contact.
WhatsApp him: +2348055361568 ,
Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,
His website:http://unityspelltemple.website2.me

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Maria Gonzales
7/14/2022 02:51:25 am


My boyfriend that left me a few months ago just came back to me last night crying for me to take him back. After a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend, he changed suddenly and stopped contacting me regularly, he would come up with excuses of not seeing me all the time. He stopped answering my calls and my sms and he stopped seeing me regularly. I then started seeing him with different girls several times but every time he would say that he loved me and that he needed some time to think about our relationship. But I couldn’t stop thinking about him so I decided to go online and I saw so many good talks about this spell caster and I contacted him and explained my problems to him. He cast a love spell for me. and After 2days, my boyfriend came back to me and started begging me to forgive him. We moved in together after a few months and he was more open to me than before and he started spending more time with me than his friends. We eventually got married and now have been married happily with a son. Ever since this caster helped me, my husband is very stable, faithful and closer to me than before.
Here his contact.
WhatsApp him: +2348055361568 ,
Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,
His website:http://unityspelltemple.website2.me

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Clara James
8/5/2022 09:49:27 am

REAL LOVE SPELL CASTER PRIEST WISDOM THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP.TEXT OR ADD HIM UP ON WHATSAPP: +2348124644470 


My name is CLARA JAMES .I want to give thanks to PRIEST WISDOM for bringing back my ex husband.No one could have ever made me believe that the letter I’m about to write would actually one day be written. I was the world’s biggest skeptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like this, but I was told by a reliable source (a very close co-worker) that Trust is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person,It was one of the best things I have ever done. My love life was in shambles; I had been through two divorces and was on the brink of a third. I just couldn't face another divorce, and I wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn’t seem to care. and he broke up with me again . I was confused and did not know what to do again, rather they got in contact with PRIEST WISDOM. He did a love spell that made my husband come back to me. We are now very much happy with ourselves. PRIEST WISDOM makes him realize how much we love and need each other .This man is for REAL and for good . He can also help you to fix your broken relationship. I had my husband back! It was like a miracle! He suddenly wanted to go to marriage counseling, and we’re doing very, very well , in our love life . contact email  Supernaturalspell1@gmail.com or text or add him up on whatsApp at: +2348124644470 his web page https://supernaturalspell21.blogspot.com/ or go to his page https://web.facebook.com/watch/PRIESTWISDOM11/ 

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cindy byrd
8/22/2022 01:44:20 am

It’s never too later to get your ex lover back.. Dr.Unity brought my husband back to me in just 28hours. My husband left me for another woman, This was just 3 years of our marriage. The most painful thing is that I was pregnant with our second baby. I wanted him back. I did everything within my reach to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so badly because of the love I had for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to my friend and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back , I had no choice than to try it. I messaged the spell caster called Dr unity, and he assured me there was no problem and that everything will be okay before 28 hours. He cast the spell and surprisingly 28 hours later my husband called me. I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that had happened He wanted me to return to him. He also said he loved me so much. I was so happy and went to him that was how we started living together happily again.thanks to Dr unity . if you are here and your Lover is turning you down, or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact Dr.Unity for help now..Here his contact..
WhatsApp him at: +2348055361568 ,
Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,
His website:http://unityspelltemple.website2.me

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Monica Lyons
8/22/2022 11:56:03 pm



It was a dream come through when my ex lover called to apologize for leaving me, And that is willing to do anything to get me back. I was speechless when he was saying all these over the phone because these were my request when i contacted Dr Nana and within the space of 11 hours Dr Nana made it a reality, My advice to anyone out there who is emotionally depressed or having any similar relationship problem, to contact nanakwakuspiritualist@gmail.com, website https://lovespellsite.blogspot.com/. or whatsapp +1 (404) 9195577. Dr Nana your kindness will never be forgotten.https://web.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100073846633313

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cindybyrd
11/3/2022 10:56:00 pm


I'm so glad I came across this real spell caster. My boyfriend that left me a few months ago just came back to me last night crying for me to take him back. My boyfriend left me and I was devastated. The most painful thing is that I was pregnant for him. I wanted him back. I did everything within my reach to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so badly because of the love I had for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to my sister and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back , I had no choice than to try it. I messaged the spell caster called Dr.Excellent, and he assured me there was no problem and that everything will be okay before 28hours. He cast the spell and surprisingly 28 hours later my boyfriend called me. It was so surprising, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that had happened He wanted us to come back together. He also said he loved me so much. I was so happy and went to him that was how we started living together happily again.thanks to Dr.Excellent . if you are here and your Lover is turning you down, or your boyfriend moved to another girl, do not cry anymore, contact Dr.Excellent for help now..
Here his contact. WhatsApp: +2348084273514 ,
Email: Excellentspellcaster@gmail.com
His website:https://drexcellentspellcaster.godaddysites.com/

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