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Staying Attached to an Anxious Partner

3/30/2016

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Is your spouse super anxious? Do they smother you and never give you enough space? This article is SUPER helpful in understanding what your anxious spouse needs from you in order for your relationship to thrive! #anxiety #marriage #relationshiphelp

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What You Don’t Understand About Your “Emotionally Unavailable” Partner

3/24/2016

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Is your spouse clingy or distant? I was at a conference this weekend where it was once again reiterated to me how impactful our attachment in our early relationships is on our current relationships. When we talk about “attachment,

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How Being "Mad" is Hurting Your Relationship

3/17/2016

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How Being

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5 Things Great Listeners Do

3/10/2016

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Oh my, I need to work on all of these, especially #1! haha. Love this website - it is so helpful and has a TON of great marriage advice!

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10 Ways to Nurture Your Long-Distance Relationship

3/3/2016

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We get it, long-distance relationships are tough. However, while the situation may not be ideal, it really can be as positive or negative an experience as you make it. If you choose today to be intentional about making this a positive experience, you will be amazed at how the closeness between you and your spouse grows, how love flourishes, and how your marriage comes alive again as you conquer a difficult challenge together. ​As you practice some of these ideas, you'll both be strengthened through this experience, and even though you wouldn't want to do it again, you'll be grateful for all that you learned. So how do you nurture your marriage, feel close to each other, and create a thriving marriage with so many miles between you? Here are 15 suggestions that may help you both be more committed to making this work. (Remember, you made promises to each other when you were married, promises that you should both be determined to keep even if you are separated for the time being.)

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15 Tricks to Help You Learn to Talk to Your Spouse Again

2/24/2016

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If one of you is craving communication and the other is fine with where things are at, things will be at a lack-luster. And vice versa, if someone is craving physical touch and the other is fine with where things are at, that just isn't going to cut it. So learn about each other - your likes and dislikes, your needs and frustrations. If just one of you feels a need for deeper communication, then this article is for you. However, no matter your love language, learning to talk to your spouse again will invite romance, adventure, and novelty into your marriage. And those are the kinds of things that every marriage needs.

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Nagging Never Works

2/3/2016

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This article is sooo true! Nagging never works.

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The Night Our First Marriage Ended

1/28/2016

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Such a touching essay! Oh, this is a must-read for anyone struggling in marriage. The Night Our First Marriage Ended - I sat on the couch at 3am. The tears had dried up an hour before, but the shaking and hiccups were still in full swing. Every time I started to calm down I’d feel another butterfly kick from the little girl in my six-month pregnant belly. Thinking about my daughter and her big brother asleep in the other room, my heart would shatter all over again. I had two hours to make a decision that would shape the rest of their lives...would I be staying with their father? My husband and I had met and married while attending in college. Our wedding was a traditional ceremony for our faith, where we promised to work together in this life toward salvation in the next. I planned on spending my life side by side with my church-going husband as we served together in our congregations. I couldn’t wait to watch him help christen and baptize each of our children into our church. And that was the life we had been living, everything was going according to plan.

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Pornography: It's Not About the Sex!

1/21/2016

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Pornography: It's Not About the Sex! The issue with these perceptions is that pornography is not all about the sex! More often than not, pornography is a symptom, not a cause, of the emotional turmoil individuals experience when they find themselves isolated, lonely, guilty, and full of shame. If you surveyed people who viewed pornography anywhere from a few times a week to a few times a month, you’d find a few things in common about their background. See if these match up for yourself or anyone you know who struggles with this addiction: (this article is soooo helpful and has some great resources!)

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6 Ways to Find Healing in the Face of a Partner's Pornography Addiction

12/23/2015

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6 Ways to Find HEALING in the Face of a Partner's Pornography Addiction - Watching a loved one struggle through an addiction can be devastating. When a partner struggles with a pornography addiction, the spouse is often left with an array of emotions to deal with – perhaps you find yourself consumed by anger, paralyzed by a sense of helplessness, or deeply hurt by the feeling of betrayal you are experiencing. If these experiences sound familiar, please consider the following suggestions in dealing with your partner’s addiction. 1) It’s not about you. Often, when a spouse discovers their partner’s pornography addiction, he/she may look inward for an explanation. They tell themselves that if they were younger, more attractive, or in better shape, their spouse wouldn’t be struggling with a pornography addiction. As personal as it may seem, the addiction is actually about the addict, not the physical appearance of the spouse. 2) Focus on Yourself. Remember to take time to take care of yourself. While the revelation of a pornography addiction can be devastating, resist the temptation to allow it to consume your life. Stay active in your hobbies and friendships outside of your romantic relationship. Taking time for you can help make the addiction seem more manageable. If you stay emotionally and physically healthy by taking time for yourself, you will be better able to help yourself and your partner deal with the addiction.

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5 Tips for Dealing With In-Laws that Feel Like Out-Laws

12/17/2015

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A must read*** - haha. My husband needs this! 5 Tips for Dealing with In-Laws that Feel like Out-Laws - With the holidays upon us, it’s very likely that you could be spending a significant amount of time with your significant other’s family. For some, this may be an occasion to celebrate. If this sounds like you, then consider yourself very, very fortunate. For others, spending time with their in-laws may feel like more of a chore... or even torture. It’s been said that when you marry a person, you also marry their family. The one “present” that comes with every wedding is in-laws. If your in-laws feel more like out-laws, then try these tips for surviving the holiday season and actually building quality relationships with the family you married into. Plus, your spouse will thank you for your efforts in loving and accepting his/her family. Trust us.

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5 Things You Should Never Say to Your Depressed Partner

11/19/2015

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5 Things You Should Never Say to Your Depressed Partner - It’s no surprise that our first instinct when we see our partner struggling with something is to try to fix it for them. This is especially true when our partner struggles with mental health. We hate seeing our partner in pain and we want to be the source of comfort and healing for them. Unfortunately, our attempts to “fix” and “heal” our partner more often than not send the messages, “You’re not good enough right now”and “I don’t want to be around you like this”. So what if there was something we could do or say that would actually help our partner while simultaneously sending the messages “I love you just the way you are” and “You can lean on me through this tough time”? Today we focus on helping a partner struggling with depression. Here are 5 ideas to replace your current efforts towards your depressed partner with.

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The Dangers of Contempt in Your Relationship

10/8/2015

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The Dangers of Contempt in Your Relationship - Drawing from the reasons contempt occurs, there are a number of ways to keep it from being a part of your relationship. You can talk to your partner when something is bothering you instead of trying to brush it off or let it fester inside of you. This keeps from the “build up and eruption” pattern that leads to resorting to contempt. You can also talk to your partner about how you’re feeling...

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9 Ways Your Marriage is Unknowingly Being Overrun by Your Friends

9/17/2015

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9 Ways Your Marriage is Unknowingly Being Overrun by your Friends - Take a few minutes to evaluate your friendships. If any of them are hurting your marriage, then you ought to think about ditching those friends and keeping your marriage as your top priority. It really comes down to the following questions,

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7 Ways Your iPhone is Destroying Your Marriage

9/10/2015

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7 Ways Your iPhone is Destroying Your Marriage - If you're not careful, there are seven ways that your iPhone could be destroying your marriage - without you even realizing it!

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5 Ways to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage

8/14/2015

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5 Ways to Re-Build Trust in your Marriage - What should you do if trust has been compromised in your marriage? Is all lost? Of course not! Don't lose hope. While it may take significant time and effort, trust can be rebuilt and your marriage can get back on track. The following 5 suggestions may be very helpful in helping you rebuild trust in your marriage.

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How to Forgive and Forget

8/9/2015

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An awesome little clip on the power of #forgiveness in #marriage. Love, love, love this website. Check it out!

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Married Life Isn't What I Imagined It Would Be

7/2/2015

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The BEST marriage website I've found! So many great tips, and interviews with amazing couples!

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4 Relationship Mistakes to Avoid

6/18/2015

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Sadly, relationships don’t come with instruction manuals. Generally speaking, people tend not to seek help or guidance on how to be in a relationship until problems arise... By which time, it’s usually too late. So in the spirit of self-betterment, let’s start with four mistakes you may already be making in your relationship and how to correct them for a closer connection with your partner.

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10 Tips for Dealing With An Irrationally Angry Spouse

6/5/2015

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The Most Important Skill to Learn in Your Marriage

5/21/2015

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Remember when you were dating and playing "the game"? There was strategy involved and each move you made was meticulously calculated. In the end, you were good enough to win the prize - your spouse!

But that wasn't the end. You simply advanced to the next level. As talented as you are, you'll need to be even better to win the ultimate prize - a successful and happy marriage!

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10 Ugly Things Awful Wives Do to Their Husbands

2/5/2015

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Alright, "awful" may be too strong of a word (since nearly everyone has done these before, and having done one of these certainly doesn't make you awful!). Nevertheless, here's a list of 10 ugly things you may be doing to your husband that certainly aren't helping your marriage. 

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10 Ugly Things Awful Husbands Do to Their Wives

2/4/2015

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Okay, so you aren't an awful husband. But, there are some pretty awful things you definitely don't want creeping into your marriage. You wife deserves better than a husband with any of these 10 ugly habits.

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Helping Your Spouse Overcome Addiction

1/7/2015

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Addictions come in all shapes and sizes.  Some of the most common and damaging addictions include substance abuse (in all its forms), pornography, and gambling. If left unchecked, these addictions have the power to destroy anything and everything you hold dear - your family, your career, your friends, your marriage, your future.

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40 Ways Your LDR Can Thrive

11/20/2014

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There are approximately 3.75 million married couples in a long-distance relationship1. You and your spouse may be among them. There are many reasons why this may be the case - military duty, work demands, family situations, etc. 

So how do you nurture your marriage, feel close to each other, and create a thriving marriage with so many miles between you?

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